Support load balancing in libpq

Load balancing connections across multiple read replicas is a pretty
common way of scaling out read queries. There are two main ways of doing
so, both with their own advantages and disadvantages:
1. Load balancing at the client level
2. Load balancing by connecting to an intermediary load balancer

Option 1 has been supported by JDBC (Java) for 8 years and Npgsql (C#)
merged support about a year ago. This patch adds the same functionality
to libpq. The way it's implemented is the same as the implementation of
JDBC, and contains two levels of load balancing:
1. The given hosts are randomly shuffled, before resolving them
    one-by-one.
2. Once a host its addresses get resolved, those addresses are shuffled,
    before trying to connect to them one-by-one.