Add progressive backoff to XactLockTableWait functions

Hi hackers,

This patch implements progressive backoff in XactLockTableWait() and
ConditionalXactLockTableWait().

As Kevin reported in this thread [1], XactLockTableWait() can enter a
tight polling loop during logical replication slot creation on standby
servers, sleeping for fixed 1ms intervals that can continue for a long
time. This creates significant CPU overhead.

The patch implements a time-based threshold approach based on Fujii’s
idea [1]: keep sleeping for 1ms until the total sleep time reaches 10
seconds, then start exponential backoff (doubling the sleep duration
each cycle) up to a maximum of 10 seconds per sleep. This balances
responsiveness for normal operations (which typically complete within
seconds) against CPU efficiency for the long waits in some logical
replication scenarios.

[1] https://www.postgresql.org/message-id/flat/CAM45KeELdjhS-rGuvN%3DZLJ_asvZACucZ9LZWVzH7bGcD12DDwg%40mail.gmail.com

Best regards,
Xuneng