Can we get rid of TerminateThread() in pg_dump?

Hi,

Following up on this ancient discussion and resulting commit e652273e...

https://www.postgresql.org/message-id/flat/11515.1464961470%40sss.pgh.pa.us#3e78a2af445dd7e566cf499023e8cb97

write(fd, ...) locks fd's entry in a user space descriptor table on
Windows, so if the terminated thread was also writing to stderr, I am
pretty sure it would hang.  Someone with Windows might be able to
repro that by hacking the workers to write to stderr a lot?
WriteFile(_get_osfhandle(STDERR_FILENO), ...) might avoid that
specific issue, but for all I know that's just the tip of the iceberg
considering the socket stuff.

Apparently this hasn't been a problem in practice.  Error reporting
coinciding with ^C must be unlikely?  I'd still like to find a
non-evil way to suppress log output, though.  What if we atomically
pointed STDERR_FILENO to /dev/null, with dup2()?  I wrote a patch to
try that idea out, but I don't have Windows, so I'm sharing this as a
curiosity in case anyone wants to try it and/or comment on all this.
Or has a better idea.  Preferably that would work on Windows and Unix
(if it also used threads).

(How I arrived at this obscure hypothetical problem: I've been
teaching pg_dump (and everything else) to use threads on Unix too, ie
harmonising Windows and Unix code paths.  We certainly don't want
thread termination/cancellation in pg_threads.h (modern APIs don't
even have that, designers of older APIs regret it, including the
Windows people who are quite emphatic about there being no safe way to
use it[1]), so I wanted to find another way to silence error output.
close() would kinda work but cause chaos if another open() squats the
fd number, which leads to the idea of dup2(dummy, STDERR_FILENO).
Then I wondered if that would also work on Windows' fake fd system, ie
whether dup2(dummy, STDERR_FILENO) would play nicely with concurrent
write(STDERR_FILENO) or fwrite(stderr) as the file is switched.  Yes,
as far as I can tell, but as soon as I read about the user space fd
locks that make that work, the above concrete problem with write() vs
TerminateThread() became clear.)

[1] https://devblogs.microsoft.com/oldnewthing/20150814-00/?p=91811