Fix minor nbtree page deletion buffer lock issue.

Fix minor nbtree page deletion buffer lock issue.

Avoid accessing the deletion target page's special area during nbtree
page deletion at a point where there is no buffer lock held.  This issue
was detected by a patch that extends Valgrind's memcheck tool to mark
nbtree pages that are unsafe to access (due to not having a buffer lock
or buffer pin) as NOACCESS.

We do hold a buffer pin at this point, and only access the special area,
so the old approach was safe.  Even still, it seems like a good idea to
tighten up the rules in this area.  There is no reason to not simply
insist on always holding a buffer lock (not just a pin) when accessing
nbtree pages.

Update some related comments in passing.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAH2-WzkLgyN3zBvRZ1pkNJThC=xi_0gpWRUb_45eexLH1+k2_Q@mail.gmail.com