Get rid of postgres.c's separate parsing logic for PGDATESTYLE env.

Get rid of postgres.c's separate parsing logic for PGDATESTYLE env.
variable, instead calling same code in variable.c that is used to parse
SET DATESTYLE.  Fix bug: although backend's startup datestyle had been
changed to ISO, 'RESET DATESTYLE' and 'SET DATESTYLE TO DEFAULT' didn't
know about it.  For consistency I have made the latter two reset to the
PGDATESTYLE-defined initial value, which may not be the same as the
compiled-in default of ISO.