Consolidate the function pointer types used by dshash.c.

Consolidate the function pointer types used by dshash.c.

Commit 8c0d7bafad36434cb08ac2c78e69ae72c194ca20 introduced dshash with hash
and compare functions like DynaHash's, and also variants that take a user
data pointer instead of size.  Simplify the interface by merging them into
a single pair of function pointer types that take both size and a user data
pointer.

Since it is anticipated that memcmp and tag_hash behavior will be a common
requirement, provide wrapper functions dshash_memcmp and dshash_memhash that
conform to the new function types.

Author: Thomas Munro
Reviewed-By: Andres Freund
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20170823054644.efuzftxjpfi6wwqs%40alap3.anarazel.de