Add missing bad-PGconn guards in libpq entry points.

Add missing bad-PGconn guards in libpq entry points.

There's a convention that externally-visible libpq functions should
check for a NULL PGconn pointer, and fail gracefully instead of
crashing.  PQflush() and PQisnonblocking() didn't get that memo
though.  Also add a similar check to PQdefaultSSLKeyPassHook_OpenSSL;
while it's not clear that ordinary usage could reach that with a
null conn pointer, it's cheap enough to check, so let's be consistent.

Daniele Varrazzo and Tom Lane

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