Fix broken support for event triggers as extension members.

Fix broken support for event triggers as extension members.

CREATE EVENT TRIGGER forgot to mark the event trigger as a member of its
extension, and pg_dump didn't pay any attention anyway when deciding
whether to dump the event trigger.  Per report from Moshe Jacobson.

Given the obvious lack of testing here, it's rather astonishing that
ALTER EXTENSION ADD/DROP EVENT TRIGGER work, but they seem to.