Fix backwards test for Windows service-ness in pg_ctl.

Fix backwards test for Windows service-ness in pg_ctl.

A thinko in a96761391 caused pg_ctl to get it exactly backwards when
deciding whether to report problems to the Windows eventlog or to stderr.
Per bug #14001 from Manuel Mathar, who also identified the fix.
Like the previous patch, back-patch to all supported branches.