Handle table_complete_speculative's succeeded argument as documented.

Handle table_complete_speculative's succeeded argument as documented.

For some reason both callsite and the implementation for heapam had
the meaning inverted (i.e. succeeded == true was passed in case of
conflict). That's confusing.

I (Andres) briefly pondered whether it'd be better to rename
table_complete_speculative's argument to 'bool specConflict' or such,
but decided not to. The 'complete' in the function name for me makes
`succeeded` sound a bit better.

Reported-By: Ashwin Agrawal, Melanie Plageman, Heikki Linnakangas
Discussion:
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