Fix TAP test for remove_temp_files_after_crash

Fix TAP test for remove_temp_files_after_crash

The test included in cd91de0d17 had two simple flaws.

Firstly, the number of rows was low and on some platforms (e.g. 32-bit)
the sort did not require on-disk sort, so on those machines it was not
testing the automatic removal.  The test was however failing, because
without any temporary files the base/pgsql_tmp directory was not even
created.  Fixed by increasing the rowcount to 5000, which should be high
engough on any platform.

Secondly, the test used a simple sleep to wait for the temporary file to
be created.  This is obviously problematic, because on slow machines (or
with valgrind, CLOBBER_CACHE_ALWAYS etc.) it may take a while to create
the temporary file.  But we also want the tests run reasonably fast.
Fixed by instead relying on a UNIQUE constraint, blocking the query that
created the temporary file.

Author: Euler Taveira
Reviewed-by: Tomas Vondra
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAH503wDKdYzyq7U-QJqGn%3DGm6XmoK%2B6_6xTJ-Yn5WSvoHLY1Ww%40mail.gmail.com