Add PG_TEST_EXTRA configure option to the Make builds

Add PG_TEST_EXTRA configure option to the Make builds

The Meson builds have PG_TEST_EXTRA as a configure-time variable,
which was not available in the Make builds. To ensure both build
systems are in sync, PG_TEST_EXTRA is now added as a configure-time
variable. It can be set like this:

    ./configure PG_TEST_EXTRA="kerberos, ssl, ..."

Note that to preserve the old behavior, this configure-time variable
is overridden by the PG_TEST_EXTRA environment variable when you run
the tests.

Author: Jacob Champion
Reviewed by: Ashutosh Bapat, Nazir Bilal Yavuz