Replace TS_execute's TS_EXEC_CALC_NOT flag with TS_EXEC_SKIP_NOT.

Replace TS_execute's TS_EXEC_CALC_NOT flag with TS_EXEC_SKIP_NOT.

It's fairly silly that ignoring NOT subexpressions is TS_execute's
default behavior.  It's wrong on its face and it encourages errors
of omission.  Moreover, the only two remaining callers that aren't
specifying CALC_NOT are in ts_headline calculations, and it's very
arguable that those are bugs: if you've specified "!foo" in your
query, why would you want to get a headline that includes "foo"?

Hence, rip that out and change the default behavior to be to calculate
NOT accurately.  As a concession to the slim chance that there is still
somebody somewhere who needs the incorrect behavior, provide a new
SKIP_NOT flag to explicitly request that.

Back-patch into v13, mainly because it seems better to change this
at the same time as the previous commit's rejiggering of TS_execute
related APIs.  Any outside callers affected by this change are
probably also affected by that one.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CALT9ZEE-aLotzBg-pOp2GFTesGWVYzXA3=mZKzRDa_OKnLF7Mg@mail.gmail.com