Specify the port in dblink and postgres_fdw tests.

Specify the port in dblink and postgres_fdw tests.

That allows to run those tests against a postmaster listening on a
nonstandard port without requiring to export PGPORT in postmaster's
environment.

This still doesn't support connecting to a nondefault host without
configuring it in postmaster's environment. That's harder and less
frequently used though. So this is a useful step.