Improve JsonLexContext's freeability

Improve JsonLexContext's freeability

Previously, the JSON code didn't have to worry too much about freeing
JsonLexContext, because it was never too long-lived.  With new features
being added for SQL/JSON this is no longer the case.  Add a routine
that knows how to free this struct and apply that to a few places, to
prevent this from becoming problematic.

At the same time, we change the API of makeJsonLexContextCstringLen to
make it receive a pointer to JsonLexContext for callers that want it to
be stack-allocated; it can also be passed as NULL to get the original
behavior of a palloc'ed one.

This also causes an ABI break due to the addition of flags to
JsonLexContext, so we can't easily backpatch it.  AFAICS that's not much
of a problem; apparently some leaks might exist in JSON usage of
text-search, for example via json_to_tsvector, but I haven't seen any
complaints about that.

Per Coverity complaint about datum_to_jsonb_internal().

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20230808174110.oq3iymllsv6amkih@alvherre.pgsql