doc: Move parallel_leader_participation to its correct category

doc: Move parallel_leader_participation to its correct category

parallel_leader_participation got introduced in e5253fd, where it was
listed under RESOURCES_ASYNCHRONOUS in guc.c, but the documentation
did not reflect that and listed it with the other planner-related
options.  This commit fixes this inconsistency as the parameter is
intended to be an asynchronous one.

While on it, reorganize a bit the section dedicated to asynchronous
parameters, backend_flush_after being moved first to do better in terms
of alphabetical order of the options listed.

Reported-by: Yanliang Lei
Author: Bharath Rupireddy
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/16972-42d4b0c15aa1d5f5@postgresql.org