Get rid of the dynamic shared memory state file.

Get rid of the dynamic shared memory state file.

Instead of storing the ID of the dynamic shared memory control
segment in a file within the data directory, store it in the main
control segment.  This avoids a number of nasty corner cases,
most seriously that doing an online backup and then using it on
the same machine (e.g. to fire up a standby) would result in the
standby clobbering all of the master's dynamic shared memory
segments.

Per complaints from Heikki Linnakangas, Fujii Masao, and Tom
Lane.